Its an odd thing, life is... It has values, and purposes, hopes and dreams, as well as responsibilities and consequences. Its has been thought of as merely a challenge to overcome, or maybe an amazing opportunity to enjoy. It really doesn't have anything to do with what other people think. Its your life, people are obstacles. Some bad, some good. An obstacle is always going to be something that stops you, but what it stops you for is up to fate. What you do about it is up to you. Things like, hatred, love, fear loneliness, inspiration, joy... they're all cards in the game of life, you're the one holding them in your hands with the power to make something out of your turn to live this amazing life on this amazing planet made by an amazing God, who created you to be who you are and what you will become.
Live.